So my pregancy journal fell flat at only 6 weeks. Go figure. I never claimed to be good at this blogging. Lets see what I can remember. I was sick until about 16 weeks. Then I got food poisoning. GREAT. Leave it to me to poison my family with the chicken. Luckily my son didn't eat as usual, so he didn't get sick. I've never been so happy that he didn't eat in my life.
Other momentous pergnancy occasions include the day that I cut my thumb down to the bone. We were at a barbeque at Gabby and Carlo's. I guess it was probably for some holiday or another. I was making my famouse salsa and trying to pit an avacado. Well avacado's are slippery and I was not all there anyway, being sick and tired. I was talking to a girl and the knife just slipped. It cut me so fast I didn't even realize what had happened for a second. I looked at my thumb and I saw bone. It was awful. I tried to stay calm and administer first aid on myself to stop the bleeding. Tim and Malachi rushed to the car and we went to a small clinic. They couldn't deal with that sort of cut so off we went to the hospital. Our family had not eaten yet though, so we stopped at Mcdonalds first to feed Malachi. Ha Ha. Even with limbs hanging off I have to make sure we've eaten after all. Turns out I did some severe damage. they stitched me up after trying unsuccesfully to find a hand doctor who could look at me. I left the hospital having suffered many needles and the knowledge that I now had to go to a hand specialist because I had cut my tendons and could no longer bend my thumb.
The specialist didn't have great news. He could repair the tendons, but I would probablky never regain movement in my thumb. I had to have the operation immediatly. But I was 11 weeks pregnant at the time. If you recall I though I was having a miscarriage with Malachi at that exact same gestation., so I wasn't fond of doing anything that would stress me or my body out. So I decided against surgury. After all I can live without a bendy thumb, but should I have hurt my baby due to the operation I couldn't live with myself. So here I am, with only one opposable thumb. I don't regret the decision. Sometimes I think of it as though I'm only 26 years old and I"m slowly breaking. My thumb doesn't work. I hope that with age arthiritis doesn't hurt it more.
So that was 11 weeks. I guess I went backwards there. I found out the sex of the baby at a little over 20 weeks. I thought we were going to have a girl. I really did. The pregancy was so different up to this point. But alas, another boy. I won' tlie, I was dissapointed at first. I smiled and called my mom and pretended to be happy. But I was fighting back tears. I love my boys, don't get me wrong. I reallyr eally love them. But I couldn't help but to think of all the things I was going to miss witha girl. The boyfriends, the dressing up, the grandchildren and marriage. All of those female life passages that I went through. What doI know about boys after all? But I couldn't stay upset for long. After all my baby was healthy and that's what really counts. Plus we already know how to take care of a boy right? Well we try.
I stayed working this whole time. It wasn't easy, but it was easier than staying home with Malachi think. 2 year oldsn' rarely understand the complexities that are pregnant woman. So he went to daycare and I went to work. I finallyhad to wean him at 23 weeks pregnant from breastfeeding. I just couldn't handle it anymore. The though of it made me want to scream. I guess it was my bodies way of letting me know I was already low in nutrients just with the pregnancy, much less feeding a 2 year old. We got Chi into his own bed around my 7th month of pregnancy when I got tired of being kicked at night.
The pregnancy wasn't bad after the first trimester. I was tired of course. I had horrible heartburn, so bad I had to take Nexium, up the dose, and even then it didn't work totally. I thought this guy would come early, but of course not. I was at 135 lbs, and I feared the baby was huge. The doctors told me he was going to be.
But he wasn't coming out either. I guess my children enjoy thier home in my belly.
I'm getting ahead of myself. I forgot the most significant change that occured during this pregnancy. We bought our first house as a couple. A beautiful 4 bedroom 2 1/2 bath home. I had this great idea that we could paint the house before we moved in. The WHOLE house! 2800 sq feet. When I was about 6 1/2 months pregnant. HA! Well we closed on the 30th of Decemeber, my birthday. So we painted. It was not fun. It was really hard. My body hurt. I worried that the paint might be hurting the baby. But I also kept things ventilated and tried to be as careful as possible. It was a tough time in our marriage. Pregnancy does things to me, I get mean. SO I was mad at Tim for a long time and he got tired of it. Poor thing, I can't blame him.
But we did it and moved in. I wanted to decorate the nursery in firetrucks, but couldn't find any affordable bedding. So we went with boats instead. It's pretty cute.
So eventually my due date came and went. I guess I"ll stop here for now and come back. I need to go and finish painting Malachi's room. It's July 10th, 2006. I'm doing a train theme in his room. It should be cute, but I need to get going while Enick is sleeping. Wow, I didn't even write about how we figured out his name. I still have so much to write. SO until then....